My good friend Chris Barrow wrote a blog post called I Used To. I’m flying back from the Las Vegas 2016 NAIFA Performance + Purpose Conference and Sacramento Association of Health Underwriters via Salt Lake passing the time.
Here’s my I Used To;
- Be a consumer
- Be a human doing
- Be a victim
- Be addicted to unmet needs
- Be angry at airlines
- Be angry at computers
- Be angry at God
- Be angry at the government
- Be angry at myself
- Be angry at others
- Be broke
- Be deeply in debt
- Be deeply in emotional debt
- Be disorganized
- Be distracted
- Be fat
- Be inflexible
- Be lonely
- Be lost
- Be manipulated
- Be more exciting
- Be more extroverted
- Be nervous about public speaking
- Be overstimulated
- Be short of breath
- Be too busy
- Be too motivated 😉
- Be unable to do a frog pose
- Be unable to do push-ups
- Be unable to do shoulder stands
- Be unable to touch my toes
- Be unbalanced
- Be unconscious of the effects of consuming things like sugar
- Be unhappy
- Be unknown
- Believe I was forsaken, unloved and worthless
- Bill clients
- Book my travel
- Blog every day
- Blog too much
- Care what people think
- Carry receivables
- Coach hollywood actors, librarians, Olympic athletes, photographers, realtors,
- Create all my PowerPoints
- Do all my research
- Do home maintenance
- Drink alcohol
- Drink caffeine
- Drink coke
- Eat popcorn
- Eat too fast
- Edit my articles, blogs and newsletters
- Expect too little
- Expect too much
- Fix my computers
- Fly once a year
- Go shopping at Costco, Home Depot and Staples
- Have a Blackberry
- Have a less complicated life
- Have headaches
- Have high blood pressure
- Have poor boundaries
- Hear city drunks coming home at 4am
- Hear city sirens during the night
- Herd cats
- Listen to music with words
- Listen to the news
- Live in a city
- Live in my head
- Not belong to Advocis, FPA, NAIFA and WIFS
- Not trust
- Over eat
- Over plan
- Over think
- Pay my bills
- Push rope
- Post blogs and newsletters to the website
- Schedule clients/prospects and personal appointments
- Schedule too much
- Sleep 5 hours
- Spend too much time creating coaching, speaking and tradeshow content
- Talk vs listen
- Think multi-tasking made sense
- Try to publish videos
- Tolerate
- Try to make Evernote and Wunderlist work
- Try to work without a team of 7
- Update my website
- Waste time with unqualified clients
- Wake up worrying in the middle of the night
- Watch sports
- Watch the news
- Watch TV
- Wear a 48 Tall / 40 Pants
- Wear designer clothes
- Weigh 267 lbs
- Worry about my email inbox being too full
- Write all web site content
- Write client follow up emails
- Write off bad debt
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