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The Best Advisors Seem To Have The Deepest Scars

They say that wisdom enters through the wound and the core of the passion to serve is based on life experience both positive and negative and the best advisors seem to have the deepest scars.

The life experience equipped them with the knowledge and the skills to pass onto other people to help them move forward.

This experience gives one something interesting to stand up and say rather than;

Hi, I’m Joe Advisor and I sell investment products and life insurance.

They use what has happened to them both personally and professionally, good and bad and use it as a catalyst to pass their experience and passion onto other people.

Here is an outstanding example of a Parable from Rod Tyler of Tyler & Associates in Regina, SK.

My Graduate Degree – by Rod Tyler

“I was seldom able to see an opportunity until it ceased to be one” – Mark Twain.

When I was 24 years old, I left university and graduate school to live in a northern Manitoba mining town and write my thesis. This was the 1970′s and the cost of living in northern Manitoba was skyrocketing. I had only my scholarship funds and a promise of a job on which to survive financially. Before too long, I had spent all the scholarship money and was working at three jobs to make ends meet. One of those jobs was running a truck leasing and rental operation. After six months of working at this job, my friend and chartered accountant, who had convinced  me to take this job, said that he had good news and bad news. The bad news was that I wasn’t going to get paid. The good news was that I could buy the rental company and assume its debt.

For six months, I continued to fulfill another contract, unloading 540 washers, dryers, fridges and stoves, and installing them in a townhouse complex. Then with my money from completing that contract, I flew off to Winnipeg, to meet a high priced lawyer, one of the partners of the city’s most prestigious and powerful law firms. I handed over all my money to him and took on the debt of the rental company and the rental vehicles. I went straight to my hotel room after this signing ceremony, with the intent of flying back to northern Manitoba the next day. I no sooner sat down, alone, in that hotel room, than I began to cry. I was a grown man, sort of, supposedly educated, and I had just given away all my savings and agreed to repay a huge debt. My crying lasted all of about 10 minutes when I realized that I had only one option; I needed to get back to my newly purchased business as quickly as I could and then get on with it. I called the airline, asked if I could get on that evening’s flight, and when they said yes, I rushed to the front desk of the hotel, slapped down my room money and hailed a cab to the airport. I never spent another minute thinking about what might happen. I was, as they say in poker, “all in”.

Over the next several years I put all my efforts into making my business as successful as I could. Eventually I sold it to another budding entrepreneur. I never did finish that thesis, but I received something more valuable.  I got a graduate degree in the actual practice of running a real business. It wasn’t the least bit theoretical. I also learned not to spend my time worrying about outcomes that might never materialize. I learned that it is better to take action. My business provided me with “on the job training”, including more lessons from other missteps, but with all the rewards that accrue to persistence. For that, I am thankful.

You might be temped to conclude that I place little value in education. I do not want to mislead you, because I do place a great deal of emphasis on advanced learning. When I entered the world of financial services I immediately recognized the need to learn all I could about financial planning and to obtain all the professional accreditations. And so I took action and completed all the requisite courses. Later in life, recognizing the need to continue learning,  I have added to the initials you see behind my name. I also still spend a great deal of time attending advanced learning seminars and professional workshops. In addition I completely embrace the concept of the Coop Program of Studies sponsored by my alma mater, the University of Regina. I have hired students to work in our business so they can appreciate the expectations of a business while they complete their program of studies and obtain  a degree. However, the experience I gained from starting and successfully running a business at 24 years of age will be the best graduate degree I could ever earn.

Perhaps someday I will return to the halls of learning to offer a course focused on the entrepreneurial initiative. If I do, it will involve some theory and a lot of actual experience in starting and successfully operating a new business.

Simon Reilly Makes The Final Round Of Advisor.ca Visionary Poll!

Dear All,

I’ve made the final round for Advisor.ca’s ‘Name That Visionary Poll’.

The Advisor.ca ‘Name That Visionary Poll’ started last April. The first step was nomination, the second step was shortlisting the top twenty and this final round is choosing a winner from the top ten so please click here to cast your vote for me.

There are two ways I could have played this:

  1. Pretending to be a shy and demure Canadian, because that is what Canadians do, in the hope that people will vote anyway – ”I don’t take part in these celebrity competitions because it’s beneath me”
  2. Bold, outrageous and provocative – ”asking for the business” – vote for me because I love the exposure!

Another reason that I am doing this is to demonstrate the power of E-Nurture Marketing & Social Media as you are a reader of my Blog or E-Newsletter and we were initially introduced through financial advisor speaking or via the internet.

Honestly, it would cost tens of thousands to receive the exposure that this poll can create.

So I’m asking for your help.

The next step is to vote for one of the top ten finalists and you can do this by CLICKING HERE & PLEASE VOTE FOR ME.

Again, why am I asking?

■ The exposure is absolutely great for my professional career development

■ The publicity is a vindication for all the hard work done with clients and the philosophy and ideas that we share in these and other pages

■ The encouragement to me to keep fighting the fight for quality career and independent financial advisors

■ My coaches and mentors all get to take a break as my unmet need of recognition is satisfied

To vote CLICK HERE.

Please note that given Advisor.ca is a publication for financial and investment advisors, I humbly submit that I do not profess to be a Financial or Investment Visionary as far as financial planning, products and services.

If one were to see me as a Visionary it may be because of doing my best to walk my talk as a Financial & Investment Advisor Coach, Speaker & Writer that uses systems like a E-Nurture Marketing & Social Media in their own practice and this is why I suppose I gained the nomination in the first place for Advisor.ca Visionary Poll.

To vote CLICK HERE.