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Clearing Your Roadblocks eNewsletter | August 2009

Beating Emotional Retirement

Clear Your Roadblocks | August 2009

Welcome to the August edition of our Clear Your Roadblocks E-Newsletter.

This edition of our Clear Your Roadblocks E-Newsletter includes;

Simon ReillyEnjoy the read and thank you for the opportunity to be of service.

Simon Reilly
The Financial Advisor Coach
1 877 248 6019


Leading Advisor Reflections of a Non-Guru

Just so that you know that I don’t see myself as some financial advisor coaching guru sitting in some ivory tower chanting down to the masses of the unaware that need financial advisor coaching or investment advisor coaching. This is one of those E-Newsletters where I share the good and the not so good about the coaching and speaking business. I believe it is important to be honest with the hope that others will find insight for their own journey.

The journey at Leading Advisor has been a challenging climb to the financial advisor coaching and investment advisor coaching peak since April as the market lows of March 9th caused the normal in-flow of new financial advisor coaching and investment advisor coaching clients from financial advisor speaking and “investment advisor speaking to sit on their hands. Rather sobering as the reality of the following Hebrew Proverb came down to roost, “Some people make things happen, some watch things happen, while others wonder what has happened”.

Forgive me for the blatant placement of key works linking to the following to keep us at the top of the follow Google key word rankings; “financial advisor coaching” or “investment advisor coaching” or “financial advisor speaking” and “investment advisor speaking”.

If you have read past Clear Your Roadblocks E-Newsletters and Blogs, you will know that I have been tempted to launch simonreilly.com to offer a generic version of coaching, speaking and Curing The Unmet Needs Disease because this is in my long term plan once we have deep enough roots in the niches of; “financial advisor coaching” or “investment advisor coaching” or “financial advisor speaking” and “investment advisor speaking”.

My intuition has been telling me to stick to my guns and stay with the niche of “financial advisor coaching” or “investment advisor coaching”. With this in mind I have been building and facilitating The Leading Advisor Clear Your Roadblocks Private Web Site for participants of The Clear Your Roadblocks One Day Workshop and The Clear Your Roadblocks Coaching GYM Program.

This week the thought of the detour to the generic coaching, speaking and the book were all forgotten with the blare of trumpets announcing an invitation to potentially speak at The Million Dollar Road Table in Vancouver in June 2010. I say potentially because I still have to qualify through a written application and interviews. The good news is I’ve made it past first base through a referral from Robert Gignac and onto the invitation to potentially speak by way of an MDRT committee meeting that got me this far.

My MDRT application was heralded by the extraordinary financial advisor speaking testimonials that I have received from Advocis Chapter Presidents and Program Chairs. These also inspired this week’s confirmations to speak at Advocis Ottawa in November and Advocis Kootenay in October and we have a number of warm conversations for speaking opportunities this Fall that will exceed last years Fall speaking dates by 25%.

The formulae is simple.

  • “financial advisor speaking” = “financial advisor coaching”
  • “investment advisor speaking” = “investment advisor coaching”

One partial detour that we have made is to venture into “investment advisor coaching” by creating an Investment Advisor Speaking Presentation and One Sheet to market speaking to member companies that belong to IIROC ( Investment Industry Regulatory Organization Of Canada ) and MFDA ( Mutual Fund Dealers Association ). I say this because we have been asleep marketing financial advisor speaking to the MGA/Life Insurance side of the business. This has carried us in the past but does not do us a lot of good when MGA/Life Insurance marketing budgets and events were reduced for 2009.

It is great to see the “financial advisor speaking” and “investment advisor speaking” phone starting to ring as we head towards 2010 with the improvements in the markets over the past five months while benchmarking the anniversary of the August 2007 Sub-Prime crisis and the anniversary of the September 2008 Main Street Recession.

Having said this, September is all about marketing towards “financial advisor speaking” and
“investment advisor speaking” and getting on the phone to follow up our E-Marketing Campaign. To make this possible, Laura has completed the process of hiring Tiffany Mayrhofer, as our Administrative Assistant, to help Laura with running Leading Advisor.

In order to free up my time for coaching, speaking and marketing I have a lot of creative commitments to complete by Labor Day;

  • August E-Newsletter
  • The Clear Your Roadblocks Coaching GYM Sales Page
  • The Clear Your Roadblocks Coaching GYM Program
  • Write the September E-Newsletter to launch The Clear Your Roadblocks Coaching GYM on September 8th
  • Investment Advisor Speaking Presentation and One Sheet
  • Advocis & MGA Free Speech Offer
  • MDRT Speaking Application
  • The Clear Your Roadblocks One Day Workshop Sales Page c/w Video
  • The Clear Your Roadblocks Coaching GYM Sales Page c/w Video
  • Maximizer Speaking Report
  • Clean Up Facebook & Twitter
  • Web Coaching Copy Change

Leading Advisor Free Digital Business Coaching With Simon Reilly

There is no doubt that the demand for financial advisor business coaching and investment advisor business coaching is increasing in the current climate – the best are getting better and want short-cuts to success, a fresh set of eyes and ears and a guiding hand.

For the last few months I have been experimenting with a new form of business coaching, designed to minimize cost and maximize time.

My One On One Premium Coaching involves bi-weekly telephone coaching calls, assessments, business building assignments and systems as well as detailed and personalized e-mail follow up and telephone call recordings along with extra calls from my end from time to time when I have additional ideas when my clients are going through challenges with; challenging clients, financial problems, hiring assistants and junior advisors, challenging team members, cases that are going sideways – the investment is from $550.00 – $1250.00 per month depending on the services and if there are two – ½ hour calls per month or two – 1 hour calls per month with the intention of a 12-month commitment.

However, I have been asked by many principals whether I could provide a less intense coaching experience that would create an active sounding board, second opinion and shoulder to cry on, perhaps during a period of change or high activity.

To this end, I would like to invite some of you to join an experiment.

For the last few months I have been testing a form of “digital business coaching” that is called The Clear Your Roadblocks Coaching GYM that involves:

  • unlimited email access to Simon Reilly
  • a weekly email progress report (automated)
  • access to my intellectual property, audio lessons, articles, e-lessons, forms
  • a private on-line forum
  • telephone access to Simon Reilly (if you have an emergency and must talk on the phone or if I feel that a phone call is warranted – all 5 – 10 minute calls booked through Laura Reilly)

I call it a GYM because you can take a little or take a lot.

What is the difference between “one on one business coaching” and “digital business coaching”?

Imagine you are going on a journey and you are taking an “on-line digital business coach” with you along the way and you are provided with the following:

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  • Maps
  • Compass
  • GPS
  • On Star
  • Roadside Assistance
  • Emergency Kit
  • Emergency Repairs

Financial Advisor Coaching - Fuel

The only thing that is really different between “one on one business coaching” and “virtual business coaching” is that you get a lot more Fuel in the form of my time through “one on one business coaching”.

While we are on the subject of differences, what is the difference between The Leading Advisor Coaching System and other coaching systems and I can best answer in this way.

“Your approach is very different than some of the others I’ve been to where it’s a Rah Rah scenario. Those things are all good for a short period of time, but this is more looking at the basics of what’s going on, as opposed to the after affects. An analogy that I thought of is you go to a doctor or you go to a naturopath. The doctor gives you a pill, the naturopath explains well this is where it stems from. I am more interested in understanding where it stems from. I don’t need some cosmetic make over. I really like your different and overall approach.”
Darren Rodney
Investors Group

The overall concept of the “digital business coaching” via The Clear Your Roadblocks Coaching GYM is to help you set 90-day goals and then work towards those goals, with me having “nagging rights” and with you having the right to ask for my help in any area – strategy, finance, branding, marketing, web attraction, customer service, operations, recruitment, team building, leadership, management – you name it, we discuss it!

The results are promising and I want to take this to the next level – which is where you come in.

The investment proposed for this service is $250.00 per month, with no fixed-term commitment.

I am proposing to offer a digital coaching service, FREE OF CHARGE until the end of September to a group of up to 20 financial advisors or investment advisors.

  • no charge, no obligation, no small print
  • we set 90-day goals at the start
  • we use 90-day goal setting forms, email, weekly reporting and 5 – 10 minute telephone calls to get you there (if you have an emergency and must talk on the phone or if I feel that a phone call is warranted – all 5 – 10 minute calls booked through Laura Reilly)
  • you have unlimited access to me – emails answered within 48 hours unless otherwise advised – phone calls on demand and subject to my schedule

And then – at the end of September – I will ask you if you want to “sign up” to the service at $250.00 per month – or walk away – either way I’ll be cool.

So – if you would like Simon Reilly to be your “digital business coach” during September – we will accept applications on a first-come first served basis and Laura will send you a quick on line survey to review your aims and objectives and to see if “we fit”.

  • any size of shape of financial advisor or investment advisor practice
  • any location
  • any market/product specialization or generalization
  • any stage of development – new start or long-standing
  • any project

Remember – that’s FREE business coaching for the first 20 successful financial advisors or investment advisors – Click Here To Register or email lreilly@leadingadvisor.com.


Leading Advisor Beating Emotional Retirement

Financial Advisor Coaching - Emotional RetirementWe supposedly live in a world where money buys you happiness. Working in the financial industry then should make you really, really happy. Right? So WHY are so many advisors unsatisfied?

Surveys suggest that nearly half of all advisors live in this state at any given time. I may have written this already for the advisor audience, but it’s a message that bears repeating: Many advisors are what I label as emotionally retired. They’ve had enough, they’re on auto-pilot or dead from the neck up and they’ve lost their inspiration for their business.

I am here today to tell you that this marketplace requires inspiration. At conferences and presentations, I tell my audience to look to their left, and then look to their right. You could be that audience member – you’re still here! They say recessions, even the worst ones, last about 18 months. This last one has carried on for longer than that and you’re still here. Now what are you going to do about it?

I say you owe it to the clients who are still with you, to your staff, if you have staff, to yourself and to your practice to be present and clear-headed for your clients and “in the present moment for yourself. Clearing the haze, the cloud, the roadblocks, that bogged down or distracted feeling – whatever that feeling is for you – is the first step. The haze is not difficult to clear. I will get into the ‘how-to’ of that later on in this
article.

The reasons for feeling bogged down are completely understandable – just as dentists spend all day leaning over people, connected in a sense, picking up all that fear and anxiety, you are just as prone as the unhappy dentist in an environment like this.

You can be compassionate as a financial advisor – you want to help people. You hear what the client is going through and you pick up the negative emotions. How do you release that negative energy? The fear and anxiety you pick up from clients, while facing your own thoughts about your own old age and retirement, bad economic or market news, not to mention over the top, chipper sales advice, or the latest profile of some super hot shot who managed to put his best foot forward (and best face forward during the interview) to create huge successes without revealing any realistic human failings.

(Why can’t I be like that? Why doesn’t MY business run that smoothly? I must be a failure.)

Even if you’re not affected in this way, there are other traps.

Back in 1994 I lost my business. I had taken every sales training and personal development course known to human kind, but I still lost my business. It came as a major shock to everyone who knew me. (At the time I owned the number one Anthony Robbins franchise in North America.)

Looking back, I understand now that it was simply because I didn’t pay attention to certain details. Although I was always well prepared for the day ahead, I wasn’t well prepared for the year ahead. I learned the most important business activity I could engage in wasn’t the mastery I had achieved in marketing and sales (in the end I couldn’t even sell my way out), it was the planning and preparation, not to mention the organizational structure and systems on which my business operated. As a result of this experience, I have dedicated the rest of my business life to helping others avoid making the same mistakes.

Today I still believe this is the best time to be a financial advisor. Sure, times are tough, but there is an equal amount of opportunity out there to be seized. Age 80 is still the fastest growing demographic. A huge number of assets will be transferred to younger clients. And, despite all of this, roughly 80% of financial advisors, your competitors, don’t have a written vision, business plan or 90 day goals. From the surveys that I do across the country, I suspect the number is even higher than that. As well, many financial advisors are not emotionally intelligent enough to handle the stress of this latest downturn. They will quit or retire.

To seize or take advantage of this opportunity though requires a clear head. Happily, as I mentioned earlier, clearing the “haze” or moving out of that state of emotional retirement is not all that difficult, but it does require a conscious effort.

Emotions that are not expressed and all those little (or big) things bothering you can fester when they’re not dealt with. Whether you’re aware of it or not, they can take up an inordinate amount of space and preoccupation that your clients and staff pick up on.

I have a clearing process I work on with my coaching clients. At first, it can seem a little “out there,” a little soft and a little too personal, but I have been told and I know that the end result can be remarkable.

In a nutshell, I tell clients to write down every little thing that bothers them and every negative feeling they have, then forgive themselves, in writing, for having that feeling in the first place. The third step requires a little creativity. I ask clients to then reframe the negative feeling, to replace it with a new emotion or thought to take the old thought’s place.

This is a journaling exercise, or a note written by yourself, to yourself. This exercise will end up looking a bit different for each person, but here’s an example:

Step 1: I feel worried about this upcoming meeting where we will need to discuss lost savings.
Step 2: Forgive me for feeling worried about this upcoming meeting where we will need to discuss lost savings.

Step 3: Forgive me for forgetting that I’ve put a quality plan in place, that I am a good advisor, that I do in fact have this client’s best interests at heart and that I am doing the best that I can.

Doing this for each and every item on your list takes time, commitment to do this exercise regularly and determination to push back against the Ego which will no doubt resist, but it will also clear a remarkable amount of space in your head.

The space to realize and realign yourself with all of the good that you do and deliver in your practice every day.


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